Frequently Asked Questions about ClubFEM NYC
1. What is ClubFEM NYC?
ClubFEM is a social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female Dominant/male submissive relationships. The Dommes are in charge of the activities at all times. ClubFEM Dommes are considerate and caring Women who want the D/s experience to be enjoyable for all participants.
2. What sets ClubFEM NYC apart from other fetish groups?
ClubFEM NYC is exclusively a Female Dominant/male submissive group. We do not accept dominant men or submissive women as members. Although some members are switches, we do not allow switching roles at parties and events. Women must be in Dominant role and men must be in the submissive role.
3. Who can attend ClubFEM NYC?
All participants in ClubFEM must be at least 21 years of age and must identify and present as Female Dominant or male submissive.¹
4. How do I become a member of ClubFEM NYC?
All potential new members are required to submit either a Letter of Introduction as a Dominant Female or application as a submissive male before being accepted as a potential member. You will be asked to participate in a brief interview so that you can ask questions of us and we can ask questions of you to determine whether we are all a good fit. You will be informed at that time if you are accepted as a potential member and invited to a munch. When a potential male member has attended three munches, or at the discretion of the Head Mistress or one of the members of the Advisory Board, he may be invited to attend one of the ClubFem parties. If accepted you will then be allowed to attend parties.**Acceptance as a potential member is solely at the discretion of ClubFEM NYC’s Head Mistress and the Advisory Board and is not based on race, sex, creed, or sexual preference so long as it adheres to the guidelines listed above in #3. You will be asked to provide proof of age with a valid ID. To become a full member you are required to attend at least two ClubFEM NYC parties.
5. What is a ClubFEM NYC Munch?
A social is a friendly, non-party setting in a non-threatening location, usually a restaurant or coffee house, where you can meet established members in order to learn more about ClubFEM NYC. Socials are usually held once a month.
Because munches are held in public places, please do not dress in fetish wear or expect any BDSM play. However, ClubFEM NYC expects classy dress. Please do not wear t-shirts or jeans. Business casual is acceptable. There is a nominal fee to attend the social. You are also expected to pay for what you eat or drink, plus a generous tip.
6. What is the age range of members?
Ages range between 21-99. We have a varied range at any given time.
7. Is ClubFEM NYC for couples only?
No. Although there are many couples who are members of ClubFEM NYC, there are equal numbers of single women and men.
8. What can I expect at a ClubFEM NYC Party?
Possible activities that occur at ClubFEM parties will be discussed with you prior to your attendance if you are accepted as a potential member. ClubFEM parties are by invitation only and what happens at ClubFEM, stays at ClubFEM. The privacy of our members is of the utmost importance.
9. What ClubFEM NYC is NOT.
a. A Female Supremacy club.
b. A swingers group.
c. A sex club.
d. A hook-up service
e. A professional dominance establishment
¹ All references to Female Dominants includes trans women and male submissives include trans men, cross-dressers and sissies.