ClubFEM NYC is a New York City-based social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female Dominant/male submissive relationships. The Dommes are in charge of the ClubFEM activities at all times. ClubFEM Dommes are considerate and caring Women who want the D/s experience to be enjoyable for all participants. The Dommes are friendly and helpful to other Dommes who wish to grow in their knowledge and abilities. ClubFEM members get to know each other very well and even get together for vanilla activities occasionally.
A few words about D/s (dominance/submission) as part of BDSM: To some Women, being dominant means having a man provide service for such things as house cleaning, massages, manicures/ pedicures, running errands, etc. To other Women, dungeon scenes using BDSM equipment such as spanking benches, crosses, whips, paddles, canes, and ropes are their ways to enjoy Female domination. sadomasochistic or bondage behaviors are not necessarily desired by all Women who dominate men. It is important for potential new members to realize these differences and understand that Dommes may choose one or a combination of both to achieve fulfillment. The primary focus of the Club is a variety of dominant/submissive activities and behaviors between Women and submissive men.
~ Mistress Buffy and Goddess Coko, ClubFEM NYC Co-Head Mistresses