Mistress Buffy
Co-Head Mistress

A successful businesswoman, a published author, a book editor, and a university professor. Mistress Buffy is always interested in meeting fellow travelers in this wonderful world of D/s, especially like-minded dominant women, and men who are proud to call themselves submissive.

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Goddess Coko
Co-Head/Web Mistress

A Black Dominant Woman who's been an active participant in the NYC BDSM scene for 20 years. She's a former Board Member of (TES) The Eulenspiegel Society, a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-NE and a member of MAsT Metro NY. Goddess Coko loves giving back to a community that has nurtured her as much as she loves being served.

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Miss Jenn
Socials Maven

While she might have moved to the wilds of New Jersey, Miss Jenn still considers herself a city Dominant at heart! Twenty years in NYC doesn't wash off that easily, and she loves seeing all her city community too much to give it up.


When she's not entertaining ideas for new social occasions, Miss Jenn enjoys tormenting her new husband/thrall, whom she met on FetLife, and planning the next afternoon tea.

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Goddess C
Tech Goddess

A tall, curvy, NYC-born, college-educated, Caribbean-blooded. punk rock hippie, lifestyle Domme with shoulder-length dreadlocks. She's a scathingly precise and sensual Scorpio, infused with the fun intellectual flair and emotional detachment.

Goddess C has been an active part of the NYC FemDom community for the last 5 years and we're pleased to have her as the newest addition to the board.

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Harvey One
Male Representative

A long-time member of ClubFEM NYC. Harvey represents the interest of our submissive male membership on the Advisory Board.

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